There are things an elegant lady never do. Some people may look at these and frown upon them. As an elegant lady, following these rules are somewhat mandatory. You want to make sure you are avoiding certain actions which would damage your image as an elegant lady, and this guide would help you knowing the actions which you never want to do
1. Gossiping
Gossiping is something a lot of people do, but as an elegant lady, you never want to gossip about other people behind their back. Do not surround yourself with fellow gossipers.
Avoid any social backstabbing and believing in rumors that are not even proven true. When you gossip about someone you are lowering the trust of the people around you, because if you can gossip about those people, there would be a chance for you to gossip about them behind their back.
They would not trust you with their stories and you may end up losing friends because of this. Avoid gossiping altogether and you will find yourself at peace.
2. Cursing in Public
There is nothing more unladylike than a woman who curses. Of course, if you find it hard to stop cursing at once, at least you should stop cursing in public. Cursing will make you appear masculine and vulgar, something you don’t want to be perceived as when you want to call yourself an elegant lady. Avoid having the potty mouth and people would feel more comfortable talking with you.
3. Dress Scandalously
We have said this many times over, but a classy lady never dresses scandalously. She would never wear something that reveal too much skin which might send the wrong message to other people. She will always dress elegantly, even when she is alone at home. The only time she will dress scandalously is when she’s trying to seduce her man, which should be done in private. Otherwise she would always maintain a classy appearance.
4. Slouch or Have Bad Postures
An elegant lady would never slouch or have bad postures. She would always stand straight and sit like a lady whenever she is around other people. Good postures is an important part of elegance which she would practice over and over again until she masters it.
5. Being Desperate
Being desperate is a sign of weakness. An elegant lady is never desperate for anything. Whether it’s in her relationships, health, finances, or when she desires something from life.
She will always find a way to achieve what she wants without begging anyone for anything. She will never be desperate for and chase men. She never forces anything to happen before its timing and she will always maintain an air of composure.
6. Compare Herself to Others
Comparison is harmful to anyone, therefore, an elegant lady never compares herself with other people. She is content with what she has while having the desire for more in her own pace.
She is not going to compare herself with other women, instead, she would only compare herself to her past self and seek way to improve herself according to her needs. She is free of envy and always take other people’s success as a lesson to constantly better herself.
7. Meddle in Other People’s Business
A classy lady will never meddle in other people’s business unless it brings any kind of advantage to her. She will not give unsolicited advice to other people and she will not cross the line of what she is supposed to do.
The only time she will meddle in other people’s business is when she sees injustice being done which could potentially harm herself and the people she loves. Otherwise she would always stick to her own boundaries and focus on herself and her own business.
8. Wasting Her Time
A classy lady knows that her time is highly valuable and important, therefore she would never waste her time on unnecessary things which brought no merit or joy to her life.
If it’s not bringing her money, health, or happiness, she would not even bother with it. Some of the biggest time waster which she avoids are social media, unnecessary drama, and negativity. She would use her time wisely and would limit herself to activities which would better herself and her life.
9. Flaunt Her Wealth (or Partner)
A classy lady would not shove her success down people’s throat. She would never flaunt her wealth to other people and keep a low profile on her own success, unless she has an image branding in that lifestyle which would bring her more profit, such as being a luxury influencer or social media star.
She also would not socially flaunt her partner since she has the understanding that there are a lot of mentally unstable and envious people out there who could possibly harm their relationships. Most of the time, she would enjoy what she has in silence and enjoy a discreet life to the fullest.
10. Ruin Her Image
She would never do anything which would ruin her own self-image, such as posting a nude of herself online or share her personal opinion which could damage her reputation. She would always think before taking actions and ensure that her image remains immaculate.
She knows her image is important for her and a great self-image would open up plenty of opportunities in her life which otherwise she would not be able to have. She is always careful and chooses her move carefully, because she knows one mistake could ruin everything she has worked hard for.
Those were a short list of the things an elegant lady never do. Remember, these list is not a fixed list and sometimes there are always exceptions to the rule. Take this advice with a grain of salt and decided which one is applicable for you.
