Well, it’s going to be a long one, so let’s just get straight to the point. Here are 5 things every women should know in their life;
1. Other Women Are Not Your Competition
Women who have not developed their emotional intelligence would often see other women as their competition. This is especially true when it comes to men. This kind of behavior is exactly the reason why so many women find it difficult to get along with other women and develop healthy female friendship.
This is especially relatable for feminine and desirable woman. On social media, you would often find women who would call other women gold diggers.
When they just want to be provided for, refuse to split 50/50 and she receives plenty of gifts from her partner. Just because someone else is living a life you couldn’t have, doesn’t give you the right to hate on that person.
Women are like flowers. We don’t compare roses, hibiscus, sunflower, lilies and black dahlia together. They have their own beauty and purpose in this world. No need to compete with each other, just bloom.
We need to develop a mindset of abundance where the things and people who are meant for you would always find their way to you. Remember, elegant ladies don’t have time and energy to hate on others.
2. It’s Okay to Want Different Things
As women, we come from different path of life and we have been through different kind of experiences. We were also raised with different cultures and personalities.
Some women would want to live a glamorous life under the spotlight. Others would want to hustle and become a successful entrepreneur.
Others want to start a multi-million dollar companies. Some others would prefer a peaceful and quiet life in the countryside. Others would want to become a traditional wife and stay at home mothers.
Some women want to have a lot of children, others don’t want children. Some genuinely prefer to be single, others desire a healthy romantic relationship. Nothing is wrong with any of these.
We need to realize that there are no standards that would apply to all women, although some lifestyle is definitely better than others.
For example, being an elegant and educated woman would give you more opportunities to network with high value individuals than being a slob and being a magnetic feminine woman would make it easier for you to attract a masculine provider man and receive help offers from others.
Still, we make our own decisions at the end of the day. All advices we have given need to be taken with a grain of salt.
You take what’s relevant to your circumstances and leave the rest. The most important thing is to have desire to become a better person and constantly work on ourselves day by day, depending on our calling.
3. Pay Attention to Your Monthly Cycle
Women are biologically wired differently from men. We are more influenced by our menstrual cycle than we think we do.
Each cycle release different hormones which directly affect our mood and productivity level. That’s why it’s really important for you to be aware of your own cycle so you could create a plan and adjust your day accordingly.
There are also some foods that are best for you during each cycle. These foods would help you go through each cycle in ease. These days, you can easily track your cycle using different menstrual apps such as Clue and Flo.
4. Don’t Revolve Your Life Around Men
We have seen plenty of women who revolve their lives around men.
Everything they do is for their men and they couldn’t seem to stop talking about their men. They would quit their job or school and move to an entire new city or country for a man. They would even defend their men when they are wrong just because they think it would earn their affection.
While it’s natural for women to be attracted to men, you don’t want to be desperate about it. Make sure you have your own life outside of your partner.
Make sure that you have friends, especially female friends. Have hobbies, career and projects that are completely separate from your partner. Spend time with your family as well.
While you do have to make choices sometimes, like moving to a different city or country with your man, this is only acceptable if you are at least engaged or married. If you’re still in the dating phase, forget about it. Don’t sacrifice your future for something that wouldn’t benefit you in the long run.
5. Never Let The Previous Version of You Hold You Back
Last but not least, never let the previous version of you holding you back. You couldn’t change who you were in the past and the things you have done.
However, you have control over your present and future decisions. Make sure that you don’t repeat the same mistakes you did in the past and learnt from them.
You just have to focus your attention and energy to continue to evolve and do whatever you can to become the best version of yourself.
Sometimes in the process, there would be individuals from your past who dislike your change because they see it as a threat. Especially if you’re trying to elevate yourself, become more elegant, refined and live a finer lifestyle. Just know that their opinions are no longer relevant to this version of you.
Never let the previous you hold you back from who you could be.
Those were 5 things every women should know in their life. Being a woman can be fun and challenging at the same time, the most important thing is to enjoy the ride.
